Codependency is a dysfunctional quality of a relationship someone may have with a person suffering from an addiction. However, codependent relationship patterns can exist where no addiction as such is in evidence. Our treatment program at Clinic Les Alpes addresses these complex dynamics through comprehensive therapy for codependency.
The common factor is making one's own well-being overly dependent on how the other person is. To some extent, this is understandable with addiction because, given its consuming nature, they are losing that person. As the addicted person fears losing control over their substance use or behavioral patterns, so the significant other feel a parallel loss of control over the relationship. Beset by fear, anger and despair, they tune in anxiously to the addicted person's moods in hopes of somehow averting what they most fear.
The antecedents of codependency can often be found in a dysfunctional family of origin where, as a child, the person may have had to caretake or placate a parent to have had any hope of getting even a semblance of what they needed. They may now assume too much responsibility for their partner's well-being in unhealthy relationship dynamics.
Codependent individuals often display several characteristic behaviors:
Ultimately, each person wants the other to be the way that feels right for them. The addicted individual wants to dispense with the challenges of the relationship and cling to addiction despite the accumulating harm, while the codependent person wants to prevent the painful loss this means. Two people or family members can become locked in a debilitating dance of fear, denial, avoidance and control.
Our treatment plan incorporates cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) as a cornerstone of recovery. CBT helps individuals identify and change the thought patterns that contribute to codependent behaviors. Through behavioral therapy, clients learn to recognize triggers and develop healthier response mechanisms.
The process of recovery begins with a change of focus by first answering the question "How am I?" rather than the usual, "How is the other person?" They can then identify when and how they characteristically reduce or distort themselves, to what purpose and to what extent. Through increased self-awareness, they will learn to recognise the signs and discover ways to reclaim themselves.
Recovery involves learning to:
In codependent relationships, communication is invariably poor. Much goes unsaid or denied to avoid the potential discomfort of dealing with things in a real way. Or conversely, dialogue may descend into slanging matches of blame, with the goal being to come out on top rather than achieving a resolution.
Inter-personal group therapy and sessions conducted by skilled systemic mental health therapists help to reset the basis for healthy relationships. Family therapy addresses the systemic nature of codependency, involving all affected family members in the healing process.
Our treatment options include:
Many individuals with codependency also struggle with co-occurring mental health issues. Our codependency treatment plan addresses these interconnected challenges:
Our comprehensive treatment program begins with a thorough assessment to understand each individual's unique situation. This includes evaluating:
The core of our therapy for codependency includes:
Real adult relationship requires honesty, openness and letting go. Our therapists guide clients through this transformative process.
Recovery from a codependent relationship may mean ending it, although that is not inevitable. For the relationship to survive and thrive, the shared goal must be healthy interdependence, which means being able to be together but as separate, self-directing (adult) individuals.
The relationship between addiction and codependency is complex and often mutually reinforcing. Our integrated approach addresses both issues simultaneously:
As each person takes responsibility for themselves, the relationship can move on from being stuck in a mutually unsatisfying and stressful struggle to a rewarding joint venture based on acceptance.
At Clinic Les Alpes, we understand that codependency and substance abuse is a difficult issue to deal with, and therefore our staff are trained to provide personalized care and support in order to help you break free from their patterns of codependent behaviour. We offer a range of recovery therapies and interventions in our luxury rehab treatment centre in Switzerland to manage your low self-esteem and realize your own worth.
Our codependency therapy program offers:
Breaking free from codependency requires professional support and a commitment to change. Our specialized therapy programs help individuals develop the skills needed to foster genuine, balanced relationships based on mutual respect and healthy boundaries.
Ready to transform your relationships and reclaim your life? Contact Clinic Les Alpes today to learn more about our codependency therapy program and start your journey to healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
